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Post by silverdragon on Mar 8, 2016 11:12:11 GMT
First define the box. Cant remember who said it, maybe it was a Pilot, but his version of that was "First you must prove there was any intelligence inside that box..." I have always encouraged my kids to think "sideways", as in,is this the only way we can do this, and if not, is the other way better, or can it be improved upon. One of mine is doing research for his university course already... he hasnt even officially signed on the dotted line yet, but knows what the course is about, so, in his spare time, is doing "Stuff". So he comes to me and asks "You know Linux dont you?.. which is the best?... My answer is pick one and learn the basics, you need command line experience, you WILL need to know how to "root", as for which one, what is the university using?... what do THEY suggest?.. if you go and learn Red Hat and they use others like the Debian, and all of that sub flavour, or SUSE, even Fedora, or gawd help you Ubuntu, the list is too long to mention all of them here, then maybe you may have missed a trick?... I know Red Hat, because its what I use if I am not using the Raspbarian Raspberry PI system, because its what I first picked as a good all rounder many many years ago, I advise him its not the best choice. Why?.. Because I fully expect him to know more of Linux in the first six months he has at it than I can ever teach him, I literally HAVE forgotten more than is good for me, because I do not program Linux much. So he asks the Uni, and they point towards Ubuntu, sort of as lower Debian flavour,and its other flavour, which is a favourite for hacktavists, to which I wont point a finger because I dont need to. He will find a lot of use. I will find I have to look at my own system and re-design my own security.... I have warned him that I will NOT allow him to develop "Hack" tools in this house. Its not that I expect in any way that he will go rogue on me, but I do know "Enquiring minds" will want to probe security to see what that is all about... this is NOT the place to do that. I do not want a war, even if he sees it as a game, to see if he can defeat the local defences. There is thinking inside the box that he needs to do first... As in "First do no harm" Yeah, think outside if you must, I, However, will just use another box to sit in and keep warm. If this box is not good enough, you are free to go find your own?... Or you can help redesign it better, but make sure you get permission first to do any major works. Last week, he had a problem, with some "price watch" type software that is a known nasty.....(I wont name it here for security reasons?.. its a bugger to get rid of...) His way of dealing with it was delete it. Fine... But when he now tries to run the un-installer to get it off the system, it wont?... What he has there is a genuine dyed in the wool "root kit" bug.. As in you can delete the directory it installed in, but unbeknown to you it has made copies elsewhere in "hidden" files to reset its self. As soon as I recognise what it is, "Malwarebytes". Yeah, I could have shown him immediately the tools I use to rid the system of such things, but that is long and not easy?.. But there is a free download of a toolkit for just that job, and its called Malwarebytes.... www.malwarebytes.org/If THEY cant find it or get rid of it, I want to know, and, more importantly, so do THEY..... So a little knowledge is a dangerous thing. He freely admitted it was probably him that got it as a freeloader to something else he downloaded, so we deleted that as well. He had been scratching his head for two days on this problem.... Including a trip to Norton Power Eraser, and many web sites he found that had advice. This the kid who I expect to surpass me in Linux knowledge within 6 months from now?.. Including the summer holiday?.... He may know what he knows, but when it comes to anti-nasty.................. Sometimes its best to look in the toolbox for that one tool you forgotten you had. Experience. "Well why didnt Norton flag it up?.." Because its "With permission" You installed it "By request", as it comes free with other software, you MUST in future check what tick boxes you ave allowed when you download stuff, and never EVER tick a box with "We suggest you may also like" on it..... He went away a little wiser, but, he also went away with a bit more respect for his "Old man" Dad that he had before?.. Two days he had tried.. two days he had failed. 20 mins and the problem fixed and I didnt swear once. He now knows I have a flash drive with all my toolkits on, that I keep updated.... He has asked if he can make a copy. Absolutely NO WAY... I have stuff on there, including something called "Baku", that would be dangerous to his computer if he knew they existed?.. He is free, of course, to make his own...... which I explain to him.... The making of that toolkit is an experience I need him to get, to find the best tools for him, and understand what each one dows, why, how, and how to keep up to date. He cannot get that unless he does that himself?... Afterwards, he then admits, that even though he is doing stuff now at college "Far above my pay grade", because I am not an engineer, nor am I "A" level physics maths or anything like that "book smart", I still hae much he can learn here, at home, because there is stuff that the college just dont teach. There was a question un University challenge last night... Name the four fundamental forces. Go on, see if you can get ahead of me here.....
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Post by silverdragon on Mar 8, 2016 12:03:58 GMT
So did you?..
I named them as, Electromagnetic, Strong nuclear, weak nuclear and Gravity.
Kid is looking at me strangely..... I then add that Gravitational is the greatest force in the universe.... The reply to that is No it isnt, the forces involved in nuclear force are stronger.
Oh yeah?.. what about the black hole paradox?...
I state with conviction that I believe the definition of absolute zero will be at the centre of a black hole, because inside that gravity field, you will have compressed the atom so much, the electrons have no space to move, therefore, have no energy, and thus they will be "cold". Its because we cant see a black hole that we know they exist.
Gravity inside a back hole has the ability to compress the atom, therefore, gravity, the force that creates galaxies, solar systems, planets, suns, and all the rest, is not just a week force, it is just spread out a lot at the moment around here, where as, electromagnetic and nuclear forces only have a localised effect. Even Radio waves have a limited ability. Gravity, however, is "Everywhere", and as such, it can interact with other forces and be greater than them...
In that a radio telescope pointed in the right direction will see deflection of radio waves around a black hole, and isnt that how we found evidence to support the existence of black holes in the first place.
My kid looks at me.... how the hell do I know all this stuff?... its part of the argument he is having at his college at the moment, and as I have never ever been that far in the education system, why do I know this stuff?...
Right you lot, listen in, and take note. It YOUR fault.
All of you have helped "educate" me in many things,
One of the things I am keeping back for later is our knowledge of "Dark Matter". Dark matter, as discussed on here, is like the Higgs Bosun 5 years ago.... Back when we {Human race} only thought we might know it may exist....
Dark matter, as we know, is only the stuff we expect to find, because its the stuff we havnt discovered yet. Look at the periodic table from the 1980's, the last time I studied it in education, and compare it to now. The 1980's one has a lot of "dark matter" missing, that we now know exists, so therefore, the bits discovered since 1980's are no longer "dark matter"?...
So can we all keep this site a secret from my kid?.. as its one thing I got that keeps me able to discuss things with him....
I am to him a Truck driver that used to run a Pub many years ago. He is still amazed that some of the things I know are even in my interest....
And I still have yet to tell him how many of the Richard Feynman lectures I have actually watched....
Why?.. Yo keep ahead of him?...
Erm... no... this isnt a race. I want to encourage him to be further up the tree than I have ever dared to climb. He is well on his way. What he doesnt realise yet that I have e genuine interest in all of this stuff, it fascinates me, and I spend more time doing this than he does playing games... Because my "after work" hours are right about now, its 11:30 am here, and daytime TV is a blast of noise thats supposed to entertain those people who dont work.
I could watch TV, or I can watch something like the video of Douglas Adams Hyperland. Go look for it, its funny and slightly educational.
So where is this thread going?...
Anywhere you want to take it. Just think outside the box and see what happens.
Then go and think about Education. how we teach our kids, what we teach them, why, and is it any use to them?....
Quadratic equations.... I remember studying them for my "O" level maths.
Then I found out about Schiehallion, a mountain in Scotland, and how its regular weight and the deflection of a pendulum by the astronomer royal Nevil Maskelyne were used to calculate the weight of Earth. Charles Mason then did the calculations....
Even with the best minds we have in todays world, the calculations done back then in 1773 were no more than a few percent out.....
All the changes they are making in maths and how we teach it to kids. Is it doing any good?..
You cant change the numbers, they remain constant, and, in that, I enter a plea that perhaps the methods used to teach maths back then were equal or better to what we teach today. Except back then they did it in their head or reached for a slide rule, basics, now, we teach them how to google the answer.
Its not what we are teaching the kids, its how we teach the kids.
I can by just thinking about it construct a wardrobe, and was able to do that at school Most kids leave school with just about enough woodwork experience to build a pencil box....
But they can hold an interesting discussion on the financial system of countries the wrong side of the world and far away from where they will ever visit....
Are we trying to teach them too much?...
Surely knowing three subjects in depth and being able to master one or two basic trades alongside Maths and English would be better that "just about adequate" in a dozen subjects they will never use. Surely school is the time when we need to educate them in what industries there are available locally.... and maybe train them in that?...
If the local industry is steelworks, do they need to know the history of Coal mining?.. If the local industry is Mining, do they need to know agriculture?.. If the local industry is agriculture and the nearest mine is 500 mile away, the nearest steelworks is a two hour flight or more, scythe the above, teach 'em how to drive tractor.....
If they have no interest in the local industry, they can go to colleges where there are different subjects in different areas.
And if you live in silicone valley, ignore the last paragraph, you WILL need to know information technology.
We have in this area a HUGE influx of Television, they have built a "Media city", yet not one class in my Kids school has been how to hold a camera even?.. [except an after school club...] Surely with that kind of thing being attracted to the area, all schools should at least look at "Media studies".
So open the box, think outside of it, but, also think inside of it.. If a Kid is to be educated, think of the box as a reasonable "Commute" from where they live now, not many kids will immediately need to move a thousand mile away, so think staying in touch with the support of family. Look at the box as what industry is available, what jobs are going, what is the winner of this area, what is its major export....
And instead of educating them on the language customs and lifestyle of a tribe of people that live exclusively in the Congo, how about you introduce them to the language of the Focus puller, how to wire a lighting rig, what is a "grab", and how to start out as "gofer" for a day and see if thats what interests them. After all, you live next to a film studio, you cant say that you will never be interested in what goes on inside?..
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Post by OziRiS on Mar 8, 2016 22:40:42 GMT
To pick up on the "how we teach" thing, you made a post earlier about dyslexia possibly being tied to Asperger's Syndrome.
Here's my take on that: BULLSH*T!!!
Look, for my money, the idea of telling someone they suffer from dyslexia is pure crap from the getgo. It's nothing but a way for a failing teacher to blame the child for not being able to learn to read and write the same way most others do.
Dyslexia is not a "condition" you have, because "there's something wrong with you". Dyslexia is a systemic shortcoming of the linear way in which we teach kids how to read and write.
YOU are not the problem. The system is.
Don't get me wrong here. I'm not saying that there aren't people who have difficulties learning how to read and write. What I'm saying is that putting them through rigorous testing by insisting on forcing them to do it the same way all the "normal" kids do it is like measuring the intelligence of a horse by how well it flies. It makes no sense! You've already established that they have difficulties learning how to read and write in the traditional way, so of course you're gonna end up with slapping a "dyslexic" label on them if you test them by traditional means!
There isn't actually anything wrong with these people. They just don't see the world the same way as most others do, which means you can't expect the same teaching methods to work as well (or at all) on them. You have to figure out how each of them makes sense of the world around them and then teach to that.
Why am I so convinced of this?
Because there's no part of the human brain that's specifically made to recognize letters and written words. If there's no part like that, then how can it be afflicted with a disorder?
What is reading? It's pattern recognition. Nothing more, nothing less. It's recognizing that putting together certain letters in certain ways makes certain words.
Can you honestly say that you've ever met one so-called "dyslexic" in your life who showed a general lack of pattern recognition skill? Someone for whom a chessboard looked utterly confusing and nonsensical? Someone who couldn't draw two straight lines next to each other? Someone who wouldn't even be able to tell you that cats in general have more legs than humans in general?
No, you can't, because you've NEVER met someone like that! And if you have, odds are the disorder they've been labeled with isn't "dyslexia", but something much more severe.
Now, let's look at it from a different perspective:
Have you ever met a person with normal reading and writing skills who can't assemble even the simplest of puzzles? Or someone who can't figure out how to fit all their luggage into the back of the car, even though it's obvious to you that there's plenty of room for it if they just stack it right? How about someone looking at a painting and not being able to see what it's supposed to look like? Or, even simpler, someone who can't tell left from right?
What do these people suffer from? What "disorder" should we label them with? Even more importantly, do you honestly believe it's impossible for someone to train their spatial awareness, or to learn to tell right from left?
"Dyslexia" is nothing more than a difficulty learning how to decypher a specific kind of pattern, so unless your pattern recognition skills are completely non-existent - and I mean as in you can't figure out that if one pot of boiling water is hot, then the pot of boiling water right next to it is probably hot as well - then you can be taught. It's just a matter of how the teacher approaches it.
The trick for the teacher is to stop insisting that you should be able to see what everyone else sees and start figuring out what you see and then take it from there. After all, what good is it to tell you, "don't eat the poisonous ones that smell like acetone," if you have no idea what acetone smells like in the first place?
Start with what you know, then fill in the blanks.
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Post by the light works on Mar 9, 2016 2:40:38 GMT
I'm inclined to disagree with you on the definitions. Dyslexia is a thing. like having two X chromosomes is a thing and having an extra dark suntan is a thing. what it isn't is a reason why the person should be excused from effort. sure some fields will be closed to you. for example, it probably isn't going to be easy for a dyslexic to become a typesetter.
but more critically, before you can find a solution, you must first define the problem. determining that the student has difficulty in pattern recognition defines the problem - now the teacher must find a solution that helps the student learn to compensate.
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Post by silverdragon on Mar 9, 2016 9:13:11 GMT
There is a "Condition" in what dyslexia is. Our brains down work "In the same way".. however, on the pattern recognition thing, I have found that its much more the opposite of what is suggested, in that some Dyslexics are much more "In tune" with patterns than others?...
Is there a fault in teaching?. Yes, confirmed. Its that they do not spot the problem earlier.
Our brains dont work in the same way is common in all of us, so, when 1% of the people are artists, 1% are writers, 1% are construction, and a whole lot of other 1%'s make up the whole, how the hell do you spot an abnormality when abnormalities are "The norm". We are ALL different......
So why is it that its becoming more and more prevalent?.. Todays society. In olden days, I could do my job without having to write much down, and when it came to the writing, we took our time and fact check everything, as that was part of the job. Now?. Results "Yesterday" and the information highway where we are forced to write pretty much everything we do down, it has overloaded that ability to write as fast as we think.
200 yrs ago it was common for people to not have to be able to read and write to do their job. Step back a generation and it was "Prohibited" that the populace at general were educated in reading and writing, except the upper classes... 2,000 yrs ago, NO ONE could read or write much.
Has evolution slowed us down?.
Yep probably... it takes many many many generations to change the fundamental way a species works, the information highway has appeared in my own lifetime, and my Kids are doing more writing than I ever believed was possible in education.
In Dyslexia, the problem in pattern recognition is macro vs Micro.
I learnt the macro of words, thus I can speed read, because I see the whole word. Others learn Micro, in that they learn letter by letter and must put each letter together to read a word.
My dyslexia is that although I recognise the whole word, I do not read every letter in that word, and in some cases, cant tell you what the micro part of that word is, because I am unable to break it down into individual letters.
I read so fast I dont have TIME to look at each letter in the word.... I can read faster than I can talk. And when it gets going, I can talk pretty fast.....
So how do we change from one to the other?... We dont.
In the same way that some people can draw art and others just splodge paint about, once you have decided, its "set" I have art in me, but its not paintwork art, its more construction of woodwork art, again "Macro" building. I cant do the fine stuff very well.
Some people excel in figures, Numerical figures, they go on to be accountants or something where maths is a huge part of what they do.
Could they write a children's novel?... Probably not.
But if the child who is now a farmer had been born in Silicon valley, would the exposure to IT have changed his early years, would they have been bought up where experience would have changed them to a Computer Programmer?...
Probably.?...
Early experiences guide how we go through life.
My Father was Police, therefore, I have respect for the law. A school friend from my early years was bought up as the son of someone on the other side of that fence. He is now, at the last count, doing 20 yrs for an armed blagg..... Not so much of a friend as someone I once knew. Another friend grew up, like me, driving trucks around the farmyard. He is now the head of the family haulage business.. I have worked with him a few times. Yeah, he works with you, even though he is the boss, he gets out the office as much as possible to drive the trucks, he has some really good trucks and his idea is that why own if you cant drive?.... The office is set to run its self without him.... he has sisters and Wife doing all the important paperwork stuff. Another friend from school was always bad at the writing stuff, but he is an excellent mechanic, show him a blueprint and he can tell you things you cant see, but he cant bothered with all that writing stuff, so he dictates to his office staff whilst he gets completely covered in oil and grease.
I have other school mates in various positions, some went Legal, some went to the Accountant side, some went as medical, many "Joined up", are now ex-military, in various parts of the world, we all went very different ways... Some went nowhere far, because they are now running the family farm, and enjoy that.
I can do the figures, I can do the writing, but, my own work ethic is to do as little of that as possible, because I get no enjoyment out of that, I prefer to get things done rather than write about it. Except on here, because this is educational, I learn stuff, its not boring?... I suppose I get bored to easily, so I cant sit about doing nothing.
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Post by silverdragon on Mar 9, 2016 9:24:57 GMT
So here is a suggestion. If you didnt do the job you do now.... What would you WANT to do?.
Forget what you may be !qualified" to do here, forget what you may be "allowed" to do because you aint licensed to do that. Think what job you would have loved to do if you had been given the chance.....
We are at our best when we are enjoying what we do. If therefore we are doing stuff just for the sheer delight of doing it?...
I would love to work with Animals.
I keep a pond. Was I qualified to do that?.. Nope. But you learn on the job......
Right, so, I challenge all of you to think OUTSIDE the box, and think of your next career move, what would you do?... if you had free choice and on the job training, so getting full wage whilst being educated in that change of direction.
This is the way this thread is going to go, I am challenging the way we think.
So challenge me back if you feel the need.....
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Post by OziRiS on Mar 9, 2016 11:13:41 GMT
I'm inclined to disagree with you on the definitions. Dyslexia is a thing. like having two X chromosomes is a thing and having an extra dark suntan is a thing. Nope. It isn't. I'm sorry, but that's just not true. There is no clear and accurate definition of what dyslexia is. No one has ever been able to pinpoint a gene or a part of the brain that is defective in some way which makes you dyslexic. There are so many different "symptoms" put under that umbrella diagnosis that some researchers have suggested the term be removed from the language completely, because it serves no real purpose other than naming the problem and stigmatizing the person who has it. Take SD's discription of his "condition" above. He can read just fine. It's just that, as he puts it, he does it on a macro scale, reading the whole word instead of each letter, which might end up giving him some spelling problems when he's writing stuff himself, but certainly doesn't hinder him in reading in any way. Except maybe if he sees a new word that he's never heard spoken or seen written before and has to spell his way through it. I can imagine that taking a little more time than it might for you or me, but I'm speculating now. Then you have "dyslexics" who can't read that fast, but have no problem writing, you have those who can do both, but just not very fast, those who consistently have problems with certain types of words, but not with others, those who can't read or write at all and you have every variation in between. There are even some who can't tell numbers apart. Calling all of them "dyslexics" is as wildly inconsistent as simply naming every living organism on the planet that isn't a plant "animals" and not classifying them any further. Your gender, skin color, eye color, hair color, height, width and so on is genetic. That's measurable. Being born with something like Downs Syndrome or cystic fibrosis is also genetic and is also measurable. Having autism, Asperger's, epilepsy, schizofrenia or any form of mental disability comes from abnormalities in the brain. Also measurable. Cancer, even though it can pop up in any corner of your body and take on various degrees of severity, is still measurable. Doesn't matter if it's in your lungs, your brain, your pancreas or even your bones, it can be positively identified as cancer and given a specific name according to its type. There is no such thing with dyslexics. Nothing has ever been found in the genes or brains of dyslexics that is consistently measurable and quantifiable. And that's not for a lack of trying, I might add. Dyslexia has been the subject of many studies over the years and continues to be studied today, yet there's still no evidence at all to suggest that there's anything physically wrong with so-called "dyslexics". Labeling a child with "dyslexia" is an easy way for parents and teachers to get around trying to find a different, non-traditional way to teach that child. It does nothing to help the child at all. In fact, it only serves to stigmatize them and tell them there's something wrong with them. "It's not that we can't teach you. It's that you can't be taught. We're off the hook and you're on your own." Funny thing is, as SD points out, that same child with that "learning disability" oddly enough has no problem learning to read complex blueprints, how to drive a car, truck or bus, play a musical instrument, build things, or draw or paint things. Being perfectly able to learn all that other stuff and just having trouble with that one thing does NOT mean you have a "learning disability". It means you're having DIFFICULTIES learning that one specific thing. Should the people who are supposed to be helping you learn this stuff be allowed to just lean back and give up? No! They should strap in and try to figure out how to make it less difficult for you! I don't believe in dyslexia as a disability, because I've witnessed so many people diagnosed with it beat the odds and learn to read and write anyway, either by being fortunate enough to find a teacher who was able to figure out how that person learned best, or by figuring it out for themselves and putting in the effort needed to master something that was exceedingly difficult for them. I've never witnessed anyone doing that with Downs Syndrome or schizofrenia. You can't learn to not have cystic fibrosis or epilepsy. The diagnosis "dyslexia" presupposes that learning to read and write is something everyone should be able to do. It's like people think it's inate. If you have trouble learning it, there's something wrong with you. But do we have similar diagnoses for people who can't seem to learn how to drive a nail through a board? Or people who can't figure out how a computer works? No, we don't. And why not? Because with pretty much everything else, no one expects everyone to be able to learn everything to the same degree at the same speed, so why do we expect that with reading and writing? It's an acquired skill, just like everything else. It comes easily to some, while others need more practice and guidance. We don't assume there's something physically wrong with someone who can't hit a homerun every time they pick up a baseball bat, so why do we assume there's something wrong with someone who has a hard time mastering the written word? I was never able to learn how to dunk a basketball. Does that mean I'm disabled? Of course not! It just means there's something I have difficulty learning, partly due to my physical attributes and partly because I haven't figured out the mechanics of making that high a jump. But that never stopped me from playing basketball. I just had to figure out a different way to get the ball through the hoop and developed a fairly good jump shot to compensate. There is NOTHING wrong with these people and we need to stop forcing on them that there is! what it isn't is a reason why the person should be excused from effort. sure some fields will be closed to you. for example, it probably isn't going to be easy for a dyslexic to become a typesetter. but more critically, before you can find a solution, you must first define the problem. determining that the student has difficulty in pattern recognition defines the problem - now the teacher must find a solution that helps the student learn to compensate. On all of this, we agree.
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Post by the light works on Mar 9, 2016 15:10:20 GMT
I'm inclined to disagree with you on the definitions. Dyslexia is a thing. like having two X chromosomes is a thing and having an extra dark suntan is a thing. Nope. It isn't. I'm sorry, but that's just not true. There is no clear and accurate definition of what dyslexia is. No one has ever been able to pinpoint a gene or a part of the brain that is defective in some way which makes you dyslexic. There are so many different "symptoms" put under that umbrella diagnosis that some researchers have suggested the term be removed from the language completely, because it serves no real purpose other than naming the problem and stigmatizing the person who has it. Take SD's discription of his "condition" above. He can read just fine. It's just that, as he puts it, he does it on a macro scale, reading the whole word instead of each letter, which might end up giving him some spelling problems when he's writing stuff himself, but certainly doesn't hinder him in reading in any way. Except maybe if he sees a new word that he's never heard spoken or seen written before and has to spell his way through it. I can imagine that taking a little more time than it might for you or me, but I'm speculating now. Then you have "dyslexics" who can't read that fast, but have no problem writing, you have those who can do both, but just not very fast, those who consistently have problems with certain types of words, but not with others, those who can't read or write at all and you have every variation in between. There are even some who can't tell numbers apart. Calling all of them "dyslexics" is as wildly inconsistent as simply naming every living organism on the planet that isn't a plant "animals" and not classifying them any further. Your gender, skin color, eye color, hair color, height, width and so on is genetic. That's measurable. Being born with something like Downs Syndrome or cystic fibrosis is also genetic and is also measurable. Having autism, Asperger's, epilepsy, schizofrenia or any form of mental disability comes from abnormalities in the brain. Also measurable. Cancer, even though it can pop up in any corner of your body and take on various degrees of severity, is still measurable. Doesn't matter if it's in your lungs, your brain, your pancreas or even your bones, it can be positively identified as cancer and given a specific name according to its type. There is no such thing with dyslexics. Nothing has ever been found in the genes or brains of dyslexics that is consistently measurable and quantifiable. And that's not for a lack of trying, I might add. Dyslexia has been the subject of many studies over the years and continues to be studied today, yet there's still no evidence at all to suggest that there's anything physically wrong with so-called "dyslexics". Labeling a child with "dyslexia" is an easy way for parents and teachers to get around trying to find a different, non-traditional way to teach that child. It does nothing to help the child at all. In fact, it only serves to stigmatize them and tell them there's something wrong with them. "It's not that we can't teach you. It's that you can't be taught. We're off the hook and you're on your own." Funny thing is, as SD points out, that same child with that "learning disability" oddly enough has no problem learning to read complex blueprints, how to drive a car, truck or bus, play a musical instrument, build things, or draw or paint things. Being perfectly able to learn all that other stuff and just having trouble with that one thing does NOT mean you have a "learning disability". It means you're having DIFFICULTIES learning that one specific thing. Should the people who are supposed to be helping you learn this stuff be allowed to just lean back and give up? No! They should strap in and try to figure out how to make it less difficult for you! I don't believe in dyslexia as a disability, because I've witnessed so many people diagnosed with it beat the odds and learn to read and write anyway, either by being fortunate enough to find a teacher who was able to figure out how that person learned best, or by figuring it out for themselves and putting in the effort needed to master something that was exceedingly difficult for them. I've never witnessed anyone doing that with Downs Syndrome or schizofrenia. You can't learn to not have cystic fibrosis or epilepsy. The diagnosis "dyslexia" presupposes that learning to read and write is something everyone should be able to do. It's like people think it's inate. If you have trouble learning it, there's something wrong with you. But do we have similar diagnoses for people who can't seem to learn how to drive a nail through a board? Or people who can't figure out how a computer works? No, we don't. And why not? Because with pretty much everything else, no one expects everyone to be able to learn everything to the same degree at the same speed, so why do we expect that with reading and writing? It's an acquired skill, just like everything else. It comes easily to some, while others need more practice and guidance. We don't assume there's something physically wrong with someone who can't hit a homerun every time they pick up a baseball bat, so why do we assume there's something wrong with someone who has a hard time mastering the written word? I was never able to learn how to dunk a basketball. Does that mean I'm disabled? Of course not! It just means there's something I have difficulty learning, partly due to my physical attributes and partly because I haven't figured out the mechanics of making that high a jump. But that never stopped me from playing basketball. I just had to figure out a different way to get the ball through the hoop and developed a fairly good jump shot to compensate. There is NOTHING wrong with these people and we need to stop forcing on them that there is! so your position is if it can't be put inside a box it doesn't exist? in that case autism also doesn't exist, because nobody has been able to prove a cause for that. Left Handedness doesn't exist. being uncoordinated doesn't exist. light doesn't exist.
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Post by the light works on Mar 9, 2016 15:12:02 GMT
So here is a suggestion. If you didnt do the job you do now.... What would you WANT to do?. Forget what you may be !qualified" to do here, forget what you may be "allowed" to do because you aint licensed to do that. Think what job you would have loved to do if you had been given the chance..... We are at our best when we are enjoying what we do. If therefore we are doing stuff just for the sheer delight of doing it?... I would love to work with Animals. I keep a pond. Was I qualified to do that?.. Nope. But you learn on the job...... Right, so, I challenge all of you to think OUTSIDE the box, and think of your next career move, what would you do?... if you had free choice and on the job training, so getting full wage whilst being educated in that change of direction. This is the way this thread is going to go, I am challenging the way we think. So challenge me back if you feel the need..... ex-president. more realistically, it'd be a firefighter, or more head-in-the-clouds, I'd love to be a TV/Movie producer.
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Post by OziRiS on Mar 9, 2016 20:28:37 GMT
so your position is if it can't be put inside a box it doesn't exist? in that case autism also doesn't exist, because nobody has been able to prove a cause for that. Left Handedness doesn't exist. being uncoordinated doesn't exist. light doesn't exist. No, my position is that just because you have a hard time learning one specific thing it doesn't mean you're disabled. As I said, reading and writing are not inate abilities of the human mind, but acquired skills. You know what else is an acquired skill that's really close to writing? Drawing. I'm not very good at drawing. For years I've practiced and practiced, read books, watched tutorial videos, even taken classes and then I've practiced some more, but I'm still not very good at it. Does my having a hard time learning this particular skill mean I have a disability? Oddly enough, no. If you attempt to fry 10,000 eggs and burn each and every one, clearly showing that you're having difficulties learning from one mistake to the next in this particular process, you're just bad at cooking. Even though that particular skill might be vital to your family's survival, not being able to cook to save your own or your children's lives is strangely enough not considered a disability. You're an electrician. That's an acquired skill too. Are all electricians able to learn the trade at the same speed and to the same level of expertise? Are all electricians equally skilled when they're done with their education? Do all people who try to become electricians even succeed? Do the ones that don't all have some sort of disability? If someone fails their final exam/certification as an electrician, is the only possible explanation that there's something physically or mentally wrong with them? No? Well, that's pretty much what you're told if you have difficulties learning to read and write. If you can't learn these particular skills, you're dyslexic, which means there's something wrong with you. You're disabled. Not normal. Handicapped. You know what they used to call that, right? Slow. Dense. Dimwitted. Simple. Stupid. "Dyslexic" is the PC term for "too stupid to learn this simple thing that others master with relative ease" and that's the main reason I dislike it. I've met just as many dyslexic geniuses as I've met literate idiots. Well, that's not entirely true... I've met many more literate idiots, but that doesn't make the many dyslexic geniuses I've met any less smart or more disabled. Of course, today, we don't use the words "dyslexic" and "stupid" interchangably, because it's commonly accepted as a disability now, but that's where it has its roots. Dyslexia as a disability is a social construct. The only reason having a hard time learning to read and write is considered a disability is because our society relies so heavily on those skills. Society doesn't rely on the majority of the population being able to draw a realistic looking bowl of fruit, fry up a perfect egg or install a breaker box, so having difficulties learning either of those things is not considered a disability. So, yes. There definitely are people who have difficulties learning to read and write, but I don't see them as any more disabled than someone who has trouble learning how to dance. ADDENDUM: By the way, how many of us here who haven't been diagnosed "dyslexic" can truthfully say that we've never read something wrong or misspelled something? I certainly can't. It doesn't happen as often as it might for someone who's had a harder time learning to read and write than I had, but it happens from time to time. Does that make me mildly dyslexic? If it doesn't, then why is someone who merely does it more often than me labeled dyslexic? Where's the cutoff? At what point do you decide that it's no longer just mistakes, but a disability? Especially when there's no consistently quantifiable evidence of the disability to begin with. Who decides when you go from "just not that good at it" to "disabled"? I know plenty of people who are considered literate who are slow readers. People who take half an hour to read a 12 page newspaper. Why is SD - who from the sound of it reads faster than I do - considered dyslexic, but those people aren't? Why is my cousin considered dyslexic when he consistently spells better than his sister who isn't? The diagnosis is flung around as wildly inconsistently as "female hysteria" was in the 19th and early 20th century. For your reading pleasure, here's a list of 37 common symptoms of dyslexia: www.dyslexia.com/library/symptoms.htmIf you don't want to follow the link, here are some stubs: - "High in IQ, yet may not test well academically; tests well orally, but not written." And on the very same page: - "Difficulty putting thoughts into words; speaks in halting phrases; leaves sentences incomplete; stutters under stress; mispronounces long words, or transposes phrases, words, and syllables when speaking." So, if you test well orally, but not written, there's a chance you're dyslexic, but if you can't finish a sentence to save your life, there's also a chance you're dyslexic...? Here's another good one: - "Talented in art, drama, music, sports, mechanics, story-telling, sales, business, designing, building, or engineering." And yet: - "Clumsy, uncoordinated, poor at ball or team sports; difficulties with fine and/or gross motor skills and tasks; prone to motion-sickness." So, if you're good at other things than writing and reading, there's a chance you're dyslexic, but if you suck at anything else, that could also be because you're dyslexic...? And I saved the real gems for last: - "Extremely disorderly or compulsively orderly." - "Can be class clown, trouble-maker, or too quiet." - "Can be an extra deep or light sleeper; bedwetting beyond appropriate age." - "Unusually high or low tolerance for pain." In other words, unless you're juuuust right in the eyes of whoever is watching, you could be diagnosed with dyslexia by any quack who thinks you're a little odd. Yeah, that dyslexia thing, that's a solid diagnosis! Nothing wrong with that system at all!
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Post by the light works on Mar 10, 2016 1:37:27 GMT
so your position is if it can't be put inside a box it doesn't exist? in that case autism also doesn't exist, because nobody has been able to prove a cause for that. Left Handedness doesn't exist. being uncoordinated doesn't exist. light doesn't exist. No, my position is that just because you have a hard time learning one specific thing it doesn't mean you're disabled. As I said, reading and writing are not inate abilities of the human mind, but acquired skills. You know what else is an acquired skill that's really close to writing? Drawing. I'm not very good at drawing. For years I've practiced and practiced, read books, watched tutorial videos, even taken classes and then I've practiced some more, but I'm still not very good at it. Does my having a hard time learning this particular skill mean I have a disability? Oddly enough, no. If you attempt to fry 10,000 eggs and burn each and every one, clearly showing that you're having difficulties learning from one mistake to the next in this particular process, you're just bad at cooking. Even though that particular skill might be vital to your family's survival, not being able to cook to save your own or your children's lives is strangely enough not considered a disability. You're an electrician. That's an acquired skill too. Are all electricians able to learn the trade at the same speed and to the same level of expertise? Are all electricians equally skilled when they're done with their education? Do all people who try to become electricians even succeed? Do the ones that don't all have some sort of disability? If someone fails their final exam/certification as an electrician, is the only possible explanation that there's something physically or mentally wrong with them? No? Well, that's pretty much what you're told if you have difficulties learning to read and write. If you can't learn these particular skills, you're dyslexic, which means there's something wrong with you. You're disabled. Not normal. Handicapped. You know what they used to call that, right? Slow. Dense. Dimwitted. Simple. Stupid. "Dyslexic" is the PC term for "too stupid to learn this simple thing that others master with relative ease" and that's the main reason I dislike it. I've met just as many dyslexic geniuses as I've met literate idiots. Well, that's not entirely true... I've met many more literate idiots, but that doesn't make the many dyslexic geniuses I've met any less smart or more disabled. Of course, today, we don't use the words "dyslexic" and "stupid" interchangably, because it's commonly accepted as a disability now, but that's where it has its roots. Dyslexia as a disability is a social construct. The only reason having a hard time learning to read and write is considered a disability is because our society relies so heavily on those skills. Society doesn't rely on the majority of the population being able to draw a realistic looking bowl of fruit, fry up a perfect egg or install a breaker box, so having difficulties learning either of those things is not considered a disability. So, yes. There definitely are people who have difficulties learning to read and write, but I don't see them as any more disabled than someone who has trouble learning how to dance. ADDENDUM: By the way, how many of us here who haven't been diagnosed "dyslexic" can truthfully say that we've never read something wrong or misspelled something? I certainly can't. It doesn't happen as often as it might for someone who's had a harder time learning to read and write than I had, but it happens from time to time. Does that make me mildly dyslexic? If it doesn't, then why is someone who merely does it more often than me labeled dyslexic? Where's the cutoff? At what point do you decide that it's no longer just mistakes, but a disability? Especially when there's no consistently quantifiable evidence of the disability to begin with. Who decides when you go from "just not that good at it" to "disabled"? I know plenty of people who are considered literate who are slow readers. People who take half an hour to read a 12 page newspaper. Why is SD - who from the sound of it reads faster than I do - considered dyslexic, but those people aren't? Why is my cousin considered dyslexic when he consistently spells better than his sister who isn't? The diagnosis is flung around as wildly inconsistently as "female hysteria" was in the 19th and early 20th century. For your reading pleasure, here's a list of 37 common symptoms of dyslexia: www.dyslexia.com/library/symptoms.htmIf you don't want to follow the link, here are some stubs: - "High in IQ, yet may not test well academically; tests well orally, but not written." And on the very same page: - "Difficulty putting thoughts into words; speaks in halting phrases; leaves sentences incomplete; stutters under stress; mispronounces long words, or transposes phrases, words, and syllables when speaking." So, if you test well orally, but not written, there's a chance you're dyslexic, but if you can't finish a sentence to save your life, there's also a chance you're dyslexic...? Here's another good one: - "Talented in art, drama, music, sports, mechanics, story-telling, sales, business, designing, building, or engineering." And yet: - "Clumsy, uncoordinated, poor at ball or team sports; difficulties with fine and/or gross motor skills and tasks; prone to motion-sickness." So, if you're good at other things than writing and reading, there's a chance you're dyslexic, but if you suck at anything else, that could also be because you're dyslexic...? And I saved the real gems for last: - "Extremely disorderly or compulsively orderly." - "Can be class clown, trouble-maker, or too quiet." - "Can be an extra deep or light sleeper; bedwetting beyond appropriate age." - "Unusually high or low tolerance for pain." In other words, unless you're juuuust right in the eyes of whoever is watching, you could be diagnosed with dyslexia by any quack who thinks you're a little odd. Yeah, that dyslexia thing, that's a solid diagnosis! Nothing wrong with that system at all! yet if I was color blind, I could not be an electrician. yes, people with dyslexia were once considered stupid. then people figured out that the letters weren't doing what the teacher said they were supposed to do, and the students were getting confused. this led to the students acting out in a myriad of different ways. people with fibromyalgia were once considered to be malingerers. I think there's been some discussion of a country in europe still insisting that Fibromyalgia is not a thing. Dyslexia is a thing - it means that some people do not process language in the "normal" way. no, it shouldn't automatically be a disability any more than any other condition should automatically be a disability. but even if a person with dyslexia can live a completely normal life, they still have dyslexia. their language centers still don't process language the same as mine.
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Post by silverdragon on Mar 10, 2016 6:22:14 GMT
If it was something that could be fixed by taking a little white pill, dont you think we would have tried by now?... Dyslexia, amongst many mental conditions, is not a physical thing that can be fixed with a band-aid sticky plaster pill medicine or physical therapy... its not physical... Its to do with the way the brain is "wired up" Think on it this way, if there was a fault with your computer where only hale the screen lit up, its most probably a loose wire inside... It wont stop the computer working, it will still be able to work completely 100%, its just you now only have half the screen size to see the results. It can be fixed by just getting in there and finding that loose wire and replacing it, or putting a dab of solder on that dry joint. But first you need to know which wire it is thats loose. Medical science has not been able "So far" to identify the broken connection. Think on it this way again, I have had problems with my back for near on 30 odd years plus or minus some I dont care to remember. When the injury first happened, there was "Nothing we can do". At all. Here are some pain meds, stop doing that, and sit down. in 2005, there had been such a sudden increase in technology, that what had been "Pioneering" surgery 3 yrs earlier had been broken down to be "Keyhole surgery", and instead of being flat on my back for a week recovering from a huge hole in my back, I walked out after three hours after surgery with no more than a "Cigarette packet" sized plaster over the three or four stitches in the hole. Think on how Cardiac surgery has been improved. How was the first full heart transplant at that time?... yet there is probably more than a dozen going on in the world right now as you read this post. Multiple bypass surgeries are now "Day surgery", they only keep you in if you are too week to go home. Aspergers syndrome had not even been named when I was born..... Modern medicine has learnt more in my own lifetime that has ever been learnt in the same period of history EVER in the world. And its getting better. Just because we didnt know what it is before I started this post doesnt mean they have discovered something whilst I write it... Maybe even the cure for Cancer...... Try living with it. Sorry but can you now go on and say Aspergers syndrome is not a disability?.. There are quite a few high profile cases where aspergers people have gone on to do great things. Yet they have to love with the social awkwardness that is they just dont understand "Normal" people, and the grey lives they lead. Yes we live grey lives. We live lives where the lines are blurred. "It would be nice if I could get a cup of coffee" Why not just spit it out and say "Hey any chance you could make me a coffee or is it better I do it myself". Same result, just a clearer way of stating the obvious?.. yes, and that what the "Aspies" thrive on, black and white, clear concise instruction, clear choices. I have lived in an Aspergers world in a room of Aspergers kids getting on just fine with each other. There are no "Hints" like that, they ask obvious questions and expect obvious answers, its a transfer of information. Can I have one of your sweets is clearer than "Are they any good?... " and a huge hole left hanging that needs to be filled with something like "Why dont you try one and find out" If an aspie asks you "Are they any good", they actually trust your opinion, and are only asking what you think. If they want one, they will ask. No means No. None of this "well not right now" hints that sort of say if you try again in 5 mins?... If they want you to wait 5 mins, they say "Can you give us 5 mins to finish what I am doing here?.." If they dont want to do it at all, they will tell you straight, no thanks, I dont want to, and no offence is taken by you not letting them down gently, they know for sure thats "Not your thing" and will remember not to ask again.... Yet with all their problems they are fully aware and capable of living in the real world and succeeding in life. All you got to do is remember to be clear in what you ask them, and expect blunt exact answers. Dyslexia is like that. Its not that it stops us being part of the rich tapestry of life, it just means in that particular area of communication, we are not as fast as other people. But race you up that hill on my mountain bike?... In my younger days, you would be wondering just how the hell I manage to get that far ahead. Does that mean YOU are disabled in the area of mountain bike racing?... Yet in the world of getting up that hill, compared to us lot who ARE good at that type of thing, you are at a distinct disadvantage, and therefore, to you, its a disability. Getting the "Look anyone can do it" type of reply, and to be honest, your sort of getting close to that yourself, is kind of like walking up to someone sat in a wheelchair and saying "Come on lets dance... everyone can do that...." Ohhhhhhh look at YOU with your legs.... What did no one teach you the right way to walk?... Ponder on that a moment. Maybe there is something where the "clock speed" of the processor of Dyslexics brains runs just half the speed of "Normies" when it comes to written language skills. Or maybe its that your trying to educate a bunch of Farmers how to draw like Van Gough, and expecting a Michael Angelo type result?..... To and Too. I have met some rather obnoxious people in my life, the grammar natzies, who will bang on and on and on and on and (ETC) about the rules of grammar... But to and too, its their favourite gripe.. I just dont get it. Its the SAME BLOODY WORD WHAT DOES ONE EXTRA LETTER O MAKE ANY DIFFERENCE?.... If I said it out loud, can you even hear the extra O?... They are, here becomes there, their is theirs as in you inherit it, that eventually makes sense... But the extra O on to and when to use it just doesnt make sense to me, so a lot of times I avoid it. To be honest, as my how many l's there are in until, and I will guess wrong. Until my spellchuckler underlines it, actually has two, why doesn't until?.. they "sound" the same at the end there?.. "But you could make sense of it if you just try...." You think I never tried?... Go ask a Farmer who has spent all his live on the farm the four rules of force and ask him to explain thermo nuclear dynamics. Then ask the nuclear physicist who has never ever spent a day on a farm about sheep and lambing season.... Perhaps I have more important things to do in my life, more interesting things, than to try and remember "Rules" about which letter comes after C. I before e except after c.... Except it has been proven by counting the words in the English dictionary that that is exactly the wrong way round, as there are more words spelt cei than cie..... So I ask you to ponder again on this. You have read all my posts on this board. Am I to be considered a "Numbskull"?... No I aint fishing for compliments here, because I know you will answer honestly that that just isnt true. But I suffer Dyslexia. I watch some people walk tightrope, and I believe learning to do that is probably easier than learning all the rules in the English language on spelling... Not only do they not make sense to me at times, they are just so "old". I have a page open on the other screen, hand on, lets just drag the link en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_hole_information_paradoxI have more interest in reading through that one than I do repeating and repeating "Until it sticks" how many letter l's in untill.... Some people "get it", I say that if they have spent their whole life learning those skills, then the missed an awfull lot of interesting stuff. My mind works "Different", its not that its wrong, its just different, and that name so you can understand the difference is Dyslexia. Its not that I do not understand every single word on that page, I do, and many of the sentances as well, in fact quite a few of the paragraphs are making an awfull lot of sense, its just, ask me again how to spell paradox, and my fingers slow down on the typing. The problem with disability is other peoples attitude to difference, they will point stare and make fun, whilst we have to deal with them, thats the disability. It takes us longer to deal with attitudes that it does the problem.
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Post by OziRiS on Mar 10, 2016 10:40:12 GMT
SD, my whole thing about this is that just because I can do spelling better than you, that doesn't make you disabled. It just means there's something I'm better at than you. Or something you're worse at than me, depending on how you want to frame it. There are probably 50 or 100 other things you're better at than me and where I'll never catch up, but if that doesn't make me disabled in any way, why should you being not as good as me at that one thing make you disabled?
In all other things in life, we human beings are different and that seems to be okay. Some understand complex math, others can barely keep count if there's more of something than they have fingers and toes for. Some understand cooking from an early age and can make even the most difficult dishes at age 10, while others can barely butter a piece of toast without ruining bread, butter and knife after trying every morning for 50 years. Some are natural dancers, while others might as well have been born without legs and so on and so forth.
Why is it that in pretty much everything but reading and writing, it's okay that there are different levels of comprehension and it's okay that some people hit a learning wall and just don't get any better, no matter how much they practice? Why are we fine with a kid seemingly not being able to learn to coordinate his/her limbs to throw a ball, but as soon as someone has difficulty reading or writing, we have to label them with a disability?
Yes, your brain is wired differently than mine. You do some things a little worse than I do and others a little better than I do, but odddly enough, only one of those things causes someone to label you disabled and none of them causes someone to label me disabled. Why is that? Why is it so horrible that you're slightly worse than average at this one thing when there are so many other things you do well and where other people may have a hard time keeping up with you?
When talking about music, art, sports and a myriad of other things, we talk about the really good ones as being "talented". We don't talk about the ones who can't reach that level as disabled. It's perfectly okay for me to hit a wall when trying to learn how to draw. I'm just "not that talented at it". But when you hit that same wall when trying to learn how to write, there's suddenly something wrong with you? Why is you hitting one wall so much worse than me hitting another, yet very similar wall? Especially when my problem with drawing is more or less exactly the same as how you described your problem with reading and writing.
I see the whole thing just fine in macro scale, but as soon as I have to get down into the fine details, it all becomes a blur to me. My micro scale for that particular skill doesn't seem to be working. I can't get my brain to connect all the small individual pieces together to make a larger whole, so I end up with something that's close to right, but not quite there, because I'm missing those final details.
When you write, I see more or less the exact same thing. It's close enough that it's perfectly understandable, but there are small beauty flaws. It's probably taken you just as much time and effort to get to that point with writing as it's taken me to get to where I am with drawing (I've been practicing since I was 8 and still do, because it's something I really want to be good at), yet no one is suggesting there's something wrong with me. Why not? Similar problem, similar "symptoms", yet you're "disabled" and I'm not?
This is where my idea of the social construct comes in. The only reason your difficulties learning how to spell are considered a disability and my difficulties learning how to draw aren't, is that as a society we've come to depend on reading and writing skills and not so much on drawing skills. The only reason society at large calls your difficulty a disability is because the thing you're having a hard time mastering is considered more important from a societal view than the thing I'm having a hard time mastering, but if we look at it perfectly objectively, there's nothing more "wrong" with you than there is with me. The thing you're not that good at just happens to have a bigger impact on your life than the thing I'm not that good at happens to have on mine.
Despite what you might think, I am in no way trying to take a swing at people who have a difficult time reading and writing. I'm taking a swing at the arrogant idiots who seem to think they have a right to label you "wrong", just because you don't fit perfectly into their neat little socially constructed box of what they consider "normal". In other words - very much on par with what this thread is about - I'm not just trying to think outside the box. I'm trying to tear that mother down, because from what I've witnessed over the course of my life, labeling someone "dyslexic" does more harm than good in most cases.
To be perfectly honest, I'm surprised that more people who are labeled "dyslexic" don't take offense that their difficulty reading and writing is considered a disability.
Imagine this:
You're in the 6th grade. Sitting next to you is Dennis. Dennis can read and write at around the lower end of the scale of what's expected of a 6th grader. You've been diagnosed with dyslexia and have been found to only read and write at the lower end of the scale of what's expected of a 4th grader.
Meanwhile, Dennis still wears shoes with velcro buckles to school, because he hasn't quite mastered the art of tying shoelaces. He generally stinks at anything requiring motor skills other than writing. He can't run, can't jump, can't kick or throw a ball, can't draw or paint and every time he tries to take the lid off his luncbox, you fear for your life. If math class requires you to use a compass, you politely ask the teacher if you can switch seats with someone else, because you're afraid he'll take your eye out. The last time you were in woodshop, he almost cut his finger off.
You, on the other hand, have no problems with any of these things. You could tie your shoelaces at age 5, you're good at most sports, you're fairly skilled at drawing and painting, math doesn't give you any real trouble - not even when the compass comes out - and you show exceptional talent in woodshop.
But Dennis can read and write at the level expected of someone his age, so he's "normal". You can't, so you're "disabled". Sure, Dennis is clumsy and uncoordinated, but that's not a disability. He's just "not that physically talented". You, on the other hand... There's something wrong with you! Except for reading and writing, you're better than Dennis at literally everything, yet YOU'RE disabled and he isn't?!
If I was told that, I wouldn't just be offended! I'd be P*SSED!!!
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Post by silverdragon on Mar 10, 2016 11:19:06 GMT
Because it IS a disability.....
You have all those ideas in your head, an exam, and one-and-a-half hours to write all the answers that are those ideas down.
Compared to other people, you spend more time thinking about how a word is spelled than you do on what you are writing, you have to stop at every word with more than four letters in it....
So yeah, when it comes to writing down your ideas, it is a disability, because the effort of doing that, compared to someone who doesnt have any problems at all spelling, they can do the same work as you in less than half the time?...
"In the world of the blind the one eyed man is king"
Comparitevely speaking {And I cant find the right correction there) I have to expend twice as much effort to write a single paragraph to the majority of people who post here. NO I dont whine about it, no I dont expect sympathy, no I dont get special treatment, I am just letting it be known for information sakes.
It IS a disability, because I am not able to write as fast as I should be able to.
However.
When people know you are dyslexic, they tend not to be to grammar police about the occasional typo. Which helps.
It has never held me back, I just have to realise that when writing stuff down, it takes me longer, so leave more time to do that.
Some day I will publish a book... But at the moment, my spellchuckler has ggone on strike and is demanding overtime.
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Post by OziRiS on Mar 10, 2016 12:13:21 GMT
By that definition, anyone who isn't able to learn something as quickly or as well as the majority is then disabled.
By that definition, I have multiple disabilities.
- I don't seem to get any better at drawing, no matter how much I practice. - I just straight up can't bake anything. I get the batter either too sticky or too floury (is that even a word?) and it always turns out either under-baked or burnt. - I've tried, failed and tried again multiple times to ride a skateboard. Can't do it. Don't have the motor skills. - Not for a lack of trying extremely hard, I was once the only person out of a 22 person class to fail HTML coding. I still don't get it to this day and have given up on it completely. - I've tried multiple times to learn how to dance. Again, motor skills lacking.
If all of these things (and more) were to be classified as disabilities in their own right, wouldn't that completely hollow out the word? Somehow I don't think the intent when coining the word was to slap it on anything and everything someone could have a harder time than the average person learning how to do...
Look, I'm not claiming that having difficulties reading and writing is not a problem. Of course it is! All I'm saying is it's not an illness. And I think that's the problem here. Definitions.
50 or 60 years ago, dyslexia was the PC way of saying "stupid". Today, it's seen as an illness. Oddly enough though, not being able to learn something that isn't considered socially vital is apparently not an illness, even though the difficulties may be similar in nature, like my comparison between your reading/writing and my drawing.
Compared to other people who can draw, I spend more time thinking about how I'm supposed to draw something than I do actually drawing it. Anything detailed that's smaller than a quarter inch across and I stop dead in my tracks, have to step back, look at the whole thing, try to figure out how that one little piece should look in relation to everything else, come back to it, get stuck again and so on and so forth.
That's pretty much how you describe your experience with writing and in the eyes of the world around us, you have an illness, but I don't.
You don't find that just a little strange?
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Post by the light works on Mar 10, 2016 15:12:47 GMT
SD, my whole thing about this is that just because I can do spelling better than you, that doesn't make you disabled. It just means there's something I'm better at than you. Or something you're worse at than me, depending on how you want to frame it. There are probably 50 or 100 other things you're better at than me and where I'll never catch up, but if that doesn't make me disabled in any way, why should you being not as good as me at that one thing make you disabled? In all other things in life, we human beings are different and that seems to be okay. Some understand complex math, others can barely keep count if there's more of something than they have fingers and toes for. Some understand cooking from an early age and can make even the most difficult dishes at age 10, while others can barely butter a piece of toast without ruining bread, butter and knife after trying every morning for 50 years. Some are natural dancers, while others might as well have been born without legs and so on and so forth. Why is it that in pretty much everything but reading and writing, it's okay that there are different levels of comprehension and it's okay that some people hit a learning wall and just don't get any better, no matter how much they practice? Why are we fine with a kid seemingly not being able to learn to coordinate his/her limbs to throw a ball, but as soon as someone has difficulty reading or writing, we have to label them with a disability? Yes, your brain is wired differently than mine. You do some things a little worse than I do and others a little better than I do, but odddly enough, only one of those things causes someone to label you disabled and none of them causes someone to label me disabled. Why is that? Why is it so horrible that you're slightly worse than average at this one thing when there are so many other things you do well and where other people may have a hard time keeping up with you? When talking about music, art, sports and a myriad of other things, we talk about the really good ones as being "talented". We don't talk about the ones who can't reach that level as disabled. It's perfectly okay for me to hit a wall when trying to learn how to draw. I'm just "not that talented at it". But when you hit that same wall when trying to learn how to write, there's suddenly something wrong with you? Why is you hitting one wall so much worse than me hitting another, yet very similar wall? Especially when my problem with drawing is more or less exactly the same as how you described your problem with reading and writing. I see the whole thing just fine in macro scale, but as soon as I have to get down into the fine details, it all becomes a blur to me. My micro scale for that particular skill doesn't seem to be working. I can't get my brain to connect all the small individual pieces together to make a larger whole, so I end up with something that's close to right, but not quite there, because I'm missing those final details. When you write, I see more or less the exact same thing. It's close enough that it's perfectly understandable, but there are small beauty flaws. It's probably taken you just as much time and effort to get to that point with writing as it's taken me to get to where I am with drawing (I've been practicing since I was 8 and still do, because it's something I really want to be good at), yet no one is suggesting there's something wrong with me. Why not? Similar problem, similar "symptoms", yet you're "disabled" and I'm not? This is where my idea of the social construct comes in. The only reason your difficulties learning how to spell are considered a disability and my difficulties learning how to draw aren't, is that as a society we've come to depend on reading and writing skills and not so much on drawing skills. The only reason society at large calls your difficulty a disability is because the thing you're having a hard time mastering is considered more important from a societal view than the thing I'm having a hard time mastering, but if we look at it perfectly objectively, there's nothing more "wrong" with you than there is with me. The thing you're not that good at just happens to have a bigger impact on your life than the thing I'm not that good at happens to have on mine. Despite what you might think, I am in no way trying to take a swing at people who have a difficult time reading and writing. I'm taking a swing at the arrogant idiots who seem to think they have a right to label you "wrong", just because you don't fit perfectly into their neat little socially constructed box of what they consider "normal". In other words - very much on par with what this thread is about - I'm not just trying to think outside the box. I'm trying to tear that mother down, because from what I've witnessed over the course of my life, labeling someone "dyslexic" does more harm than good in most cases. To be perfectly honest, I'm surprised that more people who are labeled "dyslexic" don't take offense that their difficulty reading and writing is considered a disability. Imagine this: You're in the 6th grade. Sitting next to you is Dennis. Dennis can read and write at around the lower end of the scale of what's expected of a 6th grader. You've been diagnosed with dyslexia and have been found to only read and write at the lower end of the scale of what's expected of a 4th grader. Meanwhile, Dennis still wears shoes with velcro buckles to school, because he hasn't quite mastered the art of tying shoelaces. He generally stinks at anything requiring motor skills other than writing. He can't run, can't jump, can't kick or throw a ball, can't draw or paint and every time he tries to take the lid off his luncbox, you fear for your life. If math class requires you to use a compass, you politely ask the teacher if you can switch seats with someone else, because you're afraid he'll take your eye out. The last time you were in woodshop, he almost cut his finger off. You, on the other hand, have no problems with any of these things. You could tie your shoelaces at age 5, you're good at most sports, you're fairly skilled at drawing and painting, math doesn't give you any real trouble - not even when the compass comes out - and you show exceptional talent in woodshop. But Dennis can read and write at the level expected of someone his age, so he's "normal". You can't, so you're "disabled". Sure, Dennis is clumsy and uncoordinated, but that's not a disability. He's just "not that physically talented". You, on the other hand... There's something wrong with you! Except for reading and writing, you're better than Dennis at literally everything, yet YOU'RE disabled and he isn't?! If I was told that, I wouldn't just be offended! I'd be P*SSED!!! sounds to me like Dennis has an undiagnosed physical disability. not being able to write War and Peace is not a disability. not being able to write "I will be gone until the weekend" is. and that doesn't mean the person is disabled in every way. it just means trying to use standardized reading curriculum is stupid. let me put it in blunt terms: you are telling Silverdragon his difficulties in reading and writing are all in his head.
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Post by the light works on Mar 10, 2016 15:31:17 GMT
By that definition, anyone who isn't able to learn something as quickly or as well as the majority is then disabled. By that definition, I have multiple disabilities. - I don't seem to get any better at drawing, no matter how much I practice. - I just straight up can't bake anything. I get the batter either too sticky or too floury (is that even a word?) and it always turns out either under-baked or burnt. - I've tried, failed and tried again multiple times to ride a skateboard. Can't do it. Don't have the motor skills. - Not for a lack of trying extremely hard, I was once the only person out of a 22 person class to fail HTML coding. I still don't get it to this day and have given up on it completely. - I've tried multiple times to learn how to dance. Again, motor skills lacking. If all of these things (and more) were to be classified as disabilities in their own right, wouldn't that completely hollow out the word? Somehow I don't think the intent when coining the word was to slap it on anything and everything someone could have a harder time than the average person learning how to do... Look, I'm not claiming that having difficulties reading and writing is not a problem. Of course it is! All I'm saying is it's not an illness. And I think that's the problem here. Definitions. 50 or 60 years ago, dyslexia was the PC way of saying "stupid". Today, it's seen as an illness. Oddly enough though, not being able to learn something that isn't considered socially vital is apparently not an illness, even though the difficulties may be similar in nature, like my comparison between your reading/writing and my drawing. Compared to other people who can draw, I spend more time thinking about how I'm supposed to draw something than I do actually drawing it. Anything detailed that's smaller than a quarter inch across and I stop dead in my tracks, have to step back, look at the whole thing, try to figure out how that one little piece should look in relation to everything else, come back to it, get stuck again and so on and so forth. That's pretty much how you describe your experience with writing and in the eyes of the world around us, you have an illness, but I don't. You don't find that just a little strange? you are stubbornly persisting in trying to compare creativity to capability. so you can't make a photorealistic rendering of a human face. can you at least make a symbolic representation? or do you get the mouth above the nose? the former is a lack of skill. the latter is a sign of a disability. as for baking, do you also have trouble following formulas for other things? skateboarding and dancing are also advanced motor skills. can you march in step? as for HTML coding, can you program in other languages, or are you trying to learn computer programming by learning a relatively obscure language? can you learn other languages? seriously. you don't seem to be able to get over the fact that having to actively think about spelling rules that other people can do subconsciously does not equate to not being able to do this Attachment Deletedto a photorealistic standard. you're saying a blackberry isn't a different phone just because it doesn't run android.
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Post by OziRiS on Mar 11, 2016 0:40:24 GMT
let me put it in blunt terms: you are telling Silverdragon his difficulties in reading and writing are all in his head. Absolutely not! And SD, if this is what you've been getting from what I've been writing, I sincerely apologize for not being clear enough! What I'm trying to say here is that different people are wired differently and have different learning thresholds for different things, but being able to learn one thing really well and hitting an impenetrable wall when trying to learn another does not mean there's anything wrong with you. What I'm TRYING to say is that dyslexics are completely normal people who happen to have hit that learning wall when it comes to reading and/or writing. There is nothing wrong with that! Other people hit that same wall with other things all the time, but we don't necesserily call them disabled, no matter how early or how hard they hit it, do we? I completely recognize that hitting that wall when it comes to reading or writing is a much bigger problem for most people than hitting it when trying to learn to read musical notes, because not being able to read or write is a much more integrated part of society than so many other things you can have difficulties learning, so it impacts your life in a much more significant way. I am in NO way trying to downplay the problem, or tell anyone that there's no such thing as having a hard time learning to read or write! What I am in fact trying to do is get the stigma away from that problem. By labeling it an illness or a disability, no one is doing anyone any favors. I've seen more kids get left behind, given up on and give up on themselves when being diagnosed with dyslexia than I've ever seen helped or inspired to overcome it. THAT'S my problem with it! The negative connotations it carries that cause perfectly intelligent children to be left for academically dead by a flimsy and self-contradictory diagnosis that can be administered to anyone who shows the slightest problems learning something that seems comparatively easy to others! One of my son's best friends was given this diagnosis and labeled "disabled" about a year ago. Yes, he's a slow reader and he makes spelling mistakes. Yes, he's taken a little longer to learn to read and write than others in his class, but he IS learning, just like most dyslexics. He's just catching up at a slower pace. Promises were made from every conceivable direction to get him the help he needed, but what happened? Whenever the others are reading at grade level, he's taken out of class, put in a room with a teacher all to himself, who's supposedly there to help, but gives him a book that's BELOW the level he's at, because you wouldn't want to challenge this poor, disabled child and then she leaves for an hour. And that attitude is starting to carry over to other subjects as well. Teachers talk. Tell me, how is that diagnosis helping him and thousands of other kids in a similar situation all around the world? Would they maybe be better off without a diagnosis of "disabled", replaced by a note on their record saying, "Generally very intelligent, but needs extra help reading and writing"? You wrote: "so you can't make a photorealistic rendering of a human face. can you at least make a symbolic representation? or do you get the mouth above the nose? the former is a lack of skill. the latter is a sign of a disability." How many dyslexics have you met who couldn't recognize or write some decent rendering of all the letters in the alphabet? Who can't write or even recognize their own name in writing and are utterly incapable of learning that, no matter how much practice they put into it? There probably exists such a person somewhere and if there does, then yes, that person more than likely has a disability and that disability is more than likely creating problems for them in other areas as well, but I've met exactly zero dyslexics like that and I have met MANY people diagnosed with dyslexia! Fact is that I've never met a dyslexic person who was a hundred percent incapable of learning at least SOME reading and writing, because, funny thing, most of them can if you give them the time and help they need to do it at the pace they're capable of and reach the level possible for them. And therein lies the problem, if you ask me. We're so hellbent on standardizing everything, telling these kids that if they can't do something exactly this well at exactly this age, there's something wrong with them and they're not normal. Yes they are! It is in fact perfectly normal that not all people are equally good at everything! It is perfectly normal that what may make complete sense to you is utter gibberish to me and vice verca! It is perfectly normal that someone will reach a point at which they just can't improve anymore and that's as good as it gets for them! And dyslexia is NOT, as you proposed earlier, a universal problem with language comprehension. If you look at that site I linked to with common symptoms, it is in fact very normal for some dyslexics to be very articulate and verbally creative and have careers as actors, sales people, singers and a whole host of other things that involve complex language comprehension skills. Listening to and learning to speak a language by copying what we hear around us is an inate capability. If you have a severe problem with that, then yes, there's a good chance that some wires in your brain are crossed or disconnected. But most dyslexics don't have severe problems with that. What they DO have a problem with is linking the sounds they inately pick up on and can replicate with their own mouths to arbitrary symbols we as a "tribe" have agreed should represent those sounds. The written word is not something you inately pick up on. It's a set of rules that a portion of a population has at some point agreed on and the rest have accepted that they need to learn in order to be able to communicate in written form with other people in that population. Why do you keep insisting that grasping every aspect of that set of arbitrary symbols and rules is something all people should be able to do equally well and that if someone can't, there's something wrong with them? A child can learn to speak without active teaching, just by listening and copying. The same is not true when it comes to reading and writing. Someone has to explain to the child what those symbols mean. That's why we have schools. SD is as logical a thinker as anyone I've ever met. His language comprehension skills are not lacking in any way, if you ask me. In fact, the man is very articulate and verbally creative, is able to express himself in a myriad of ways, ranging from simple, straight talk to the darkest forms of sarcasm and everything in between and he has no problem understanding what the rest of us write. From his own description of how he experiences dyslexia, the rules of spelling just don't make logical sense to him. His extremely well-functioning, logical brain can't make sense of why there should be a difference between "to" and "too" and what exactly that difference is, but I am as close to certain as I can get that if you sat down and spoke to him face to face, he'd use both words perfectly in conversation without even thinking about it. It's the RULES of how to spell things that aren't logical to him, not the language itself. If anything, dyslexia should be defined as this: "An inability to logically link inate language comprehension skills with the manmade symbols and rules governing their usage agreed upon to represent that language in written form." That's what reading and writing is. Linking a natural, inate ability to understand and use language with an articficial, arbitrary system of symbols and rules. And that's supposed to come naturally and at a somewhat equal rate to everyone?
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Post by the light works on Mar 11, 2016 1:00:40 GMT
people who have trouble speaking the language have aphasia.
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Post by OziRiS on Mar 11, 2016 1:55:25 GMT
Forgot to address this: seriously. you don't seem to be able to get over the fact that having to actively think about spelling rules that other people can do subconsciously does not equate to not being able to do this View Attachmentto a photorealistic standard. You seem to totally negate the fact that we ALL have to actively think about spelling rules in the learning process, but at some point, it becomes more or less muscle memory for most people, while others just don't ever get to that point. You (and society at large) seem to think getting to that point where you can remember those rules and perform those tasks subconsciously is an inate ability all humans should have and if someone doesn't, there's something wrong with them, even though they have no problems at all getting to that point with other things. Take my previous example of reading musical notes. That's a language in its own right. A bunch of artificially created, arbitrary symbols that represent certain noises that can be made by an instrument. No person on the planet is born with the ability to read and understand those symbols. You have to learn from someone who already understands them and you have to practice to get to the point where you no longer have to actively think about what to do with them. If reading and writing words and sentences is something we're all supposed to grasp inately, why are some people who are perfectly literate completely unable to learn how to read musical notes? And why can some dyslexics - who, according to you, have inherent problems with their language recognition skills - learn to do it just as easily as they can learn to do other things? I've got a friend who will stutter his way through a children's book, but can look at a sheet of music and start playing (on multiple instrument, I might add) like it's the most natural thing in the world. Why can he do one and not the other? Because for some reason he's able to make a logical connection between the symbols on a sheet of music, the sounds they represent and the rules that govern that language system, but he just can't make that same logical connection between letters, spoken words and the rules that connect the two. If you're introduced to a game where the rules make absolutely no logical sense to you, no matter how many times and in how many different ways people explain them to you, what are the odds of you ever learning those rules by heart and getting good at that game? More to the point, if you fail to see the logic in the rules to that game that all your friends seem to understand just fine, but you have no problem seeing the logic in other things, does that necessarily mean there's something wrong with you? you're saying a blackberry isn't a different phone just because it doesn't run android. No. You're totally missing my point. I'm saying a Blackberry that can't read Android code isn't defective. That's not part of its logic. That's not what it was built for. That doesn't mean there's anything wrong with it.
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